In the spirit of Natalie Angier'­s Woman: An Intimate Geography, but with explicit techniques like those in Lou Paget's How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure, Ian Kerner's She Comes First exuberantly celebrates female sexual pleasure through the art of oral sex. The premise of the book is simple: when it comes to conversing in the language of love, cunnilingus should be everyone'­s native tongue. Every popular source from Men's Health to Sex and the City tells us that if you want a woman to have an orgasm, the best method is to go downtown. Yet when confronted with a woman'­s most private anatomy, most of us have no idea how to hit the right spots. As with any language, in order to express yourself fluently when pleasuring a woman, you must be thoroughly acquainted with the rules of grammar and style. And like that indispensable classic on English usage, The Elements of Style, author and certified sex therapist Ian Kerner Ph.D, condenses a wealth of experience and expertise into a simple, essential rulebook, offering the reader nothing less than the definitive guide to the grammar of oral sex.